January 7, 2019
Dr. Sharon May
Happy New Year, I hope your Christmas season was filled with fun and warm memories.
I am so glad you are part of the Safe Haven community; a lot is planned for Safe Haven Center and excited to have you join us this new year!
We look forward...
October 8, 2018
Hello Safe Haven Community,
I am constantly surprised by how little couples really talk about what really matters. Couples all say they wish they could ‘communicate’ better.
But couples don’t always know how to talk about the deeper heart issues, what really...
September 15, 2018
Have you ever tried to share your complaint and got heated, maybe even contemptuous and angry … but you really wanted your spouse to understand how this thing bothers you?
Then, here is the kicker, your spouse got hurt and offended by t...
September 8, 2018
Difficult: Do you and your spouse have a difficult life which places stress and strain on the marriage?
Are you faced with challenges regarding kids, money, work, health, in-laws and other circumstances?
These marriages have faced one thing after another and making...
August 25, 2018
“I wish you could understand how you hurt me when you do this or that!”
After sitting with over 700 couples during Safe Haven Marriage Intensives, the one phrase I hear the most is: “I wish my spouse could understand how they hurt me when they...
August 9, 2018
If we can teach and encourage people to get along and love well,
we can change marriages, families and communities.
We could impact the world.
How does the way we were loved and cared for growing up impact the way we get along in marriage and even th...
August 4, 2018
Dear Safe Haven Community,
We will present a series of blogs on bridging the gap between parents and their adult children. We believe this is a very important topic for families today.
“We’d love to have you join us" is a common invitation parents give their grown childr...
July 21, 2018
Laughing with ice cream in hand, Beth and Jack stood with a group of their friends outside the restaurant.
Looking over to Jack, Beth whispered, “are you ready to leave?” Jack smiled and kept talking to a friend. Suddenly Beth got ‘triggered.’
Beth could feel...
July 16, 2018
“What?! You didn’t pick up the dry cleaning? You drove right by and didn’t stop and get it?”
Rose was upset. Her face turned red as her voice rose in volume.
Bert defended himself, “I knew I was going to be late for supper so I figured I’d get the dry cleaning tomorrow.”...
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